I have always been a Type A personality.  It has served me well in some cases and given Eric more than a few good reasons to make fun of me.  The jury is still out on whether it helps me be a better mommy or just a neurotic one.....
On my computer, I have a spreadsheet of our packing list for our trip next week, a calendar that has our meals planned out through next April, cooresponding weekly grocery lists, Ethan and Ella's daily schedule for Mimi, and a zillion folders of pictures of us organized by month and listed chronologically.  I asked for Outlook for Christmas so I can organize my emails better and am more excited about that than anyone should be. 
Ethan and Ella have a schedule every day.  We get up between 6:30 and 7.  Eat breakfast around 7:45.  Go down for nap at 9....etc etc.  We may vary from it a little but not much.  I think the fact that I have multiples feeds into my habits.  When you have 2, you just about have to have some sort of a schedule or else you wouldn't ever get anything done.   Some say it is a little excessive, but I say that's me and it really works for us : )
Mimi and I have a new arrangment that has made my life so much easier.  She takes the kids to her house every other week.  That day I do a good clean to the whole house.  I never thought that several straight hours of straight cleaning would feel so good!  In fact, I told her that could be my only Christmas present from them (thank goodness she didn't bite ; )
okay....so it stresses me out when Eric puts the wrong colored top on the bottles.  (COMPLETELY irks me.  I swear he does it just to get a rise out of me!)   Or when he tries to put Ethan or Ella in the wrong high chair or car seat (note the word tries) And I am learning to deal with Ethan not letting me have a color pattern when I put the Lego's together. 
F-L-E-X-I-B-I-L-T-Y is what we are working on here.
I am sure that I will pass on this blessing/curse to one of the kids.   And I am sure the other will drive me crazy in their own sweet way with their messy backpacks and loose papers everywhere.
Edited to add:  ok so I just googled Type A to see what I could find and Wikapedia apparently does not think very highly of Type As.  Let me clarify that I am not impatient or difficult and I do fit in well with society and I do not need to be medicated!  Do you hear me?????  (Just kidding : )
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